After Married-Life

Hi Everyone

Been awhile since I post something. Many friends asked me how is my married life the very first thing they see me. Guess nothing much of the difference to me. Still surviving. =)  I already stay over my hubby place before we get married. Usually weekends only but I do encourage couples who getting married do so to. Not for the only purpose of making love. Haha. But also to feel comfortable and get used to live with someone who love and seeing him everyday. Especially you or your partner are clean freak, better to communicate your expectation to one another before living together. You nv want to kick a big fuss over a small incident like nv flush the toilet bowl after used that kinda things.

Majority of the people are encouraged to go for those before wedding consultation. You will understand yourself and your partner well. For us we did not go for the course. Not because we dont find it useful. However we are LAZY to go. Haha . I know my hubby since I am 17 years old. We were jc mates. we get together when we around 22 years old. Been good buddy before we got together. Been through his university transition period and my first step into society transition period, we have our up and down in life. Counting this year we are together for 7 years . I have very hot temper. I know I love him so much and I knowmyself well. Everytime we quarrel, before I know my temper is reaching to the peak, i will want to leave him and ask him to leave me alone. Like if we quarrel at home, i will just dash out of the house. I know this is not the best solution however i know it will be worse if my temper is here. He does not like the idea of me leaving and giving in to me everytime. Hence we come out to a better solution. Instead of me running away, and when he makes me so angry. I just calm down and tell him what i dont like. Make him promise he wont do it again and he will nv do it again. Luckily he is someone who once promise and will do it kinda person. When i am super angry or hurt, i will tell him to give me a hug and things will be better . We had a quarrel and he hugs me. It helps and it works. =)

Currently staying with my mil and she is very modern. She is very different compare to the normal mil and those drama mil. HAHA. Kinda feel good to stay with her and with maid around. I do not need to do household chores. With my super-princess character, I will sure die without maid. Anyway love playing mj with her and rest of my sis in law . Cant wait for every sunday to come , so can play and see my dearest 4 precious nieces and nephew.  Will talk more about them in my next post =)

My Mil and Fil